So it’s Sunday morning and I haven’t written in my blog for some time, which is not to say I haven’t written at all. I have pages upon pages in my spiral notebooks, mostly appropriated from the supply cabinet at work, reflecting somewhat obsessively on the state of my life as it stands.
It’s been quite a year. At times it has been difficult to see the upside of certain events but, as we approach Thanksgiving and I reflect upon what I am grateful for, the upside sort of bobs up to the surface, which, it seems, does much for my outlook on life and my mood in general.
I am overwhelmingly grateful for the friends I’ve been fortunate to make. It seems that the collective complaint of those of us who fall into the 30+ category is “It’s SO HARD to meet people and make friends.” I’ve found this as true as anyone. My parents have consistently warned me over the years that I’m at work to work and not to make friends…that I shouldn’t get too friendly with my fellow cube farmers. There are times when they’ve been right, I’ll begrudgingly admit, but, on the whole following their advice would have denied me the distinct pleasure of counting some truly awesome people among my friends: Amanda, Cathy, Christine, Pier, C-Dub, the Legen – wait for it – dary Mr.Lang, Diego, Shot…I could go on and on. At times all of these folks have been the only reason I’ve been able to make it through a work day – and in Cathy’s case, any day. You guys rock hard.
Then, of course, there are my knitting friends – I won’t name names because there are just so many of you! These are the ladies who brighten my week immeasurably. You make me smile and laugh and accept all my craziness and neuroses, give me a good talking to when I need it. I absolutely adore all of you, even when I go MIA for a bit. Thank you all for being your fabulous selves.
Now, my Laura falls in a category all her own. My dearest, most beloved friend since we were awkward pre-teens with LL Bean backpacks in the halls of the MKA middle school. I can’t adequately express my gratitude, my joy that I am lucky enough to have you as my sister. I can’t go much farther than that because I’ll be a sobby mess instantly…I love you that much. Thank you for always being there for me and letting me be there for you. I also have to thank you for giving me an awesome brother-in-law and an angel of a niece. I would also be remiss if I didn’t mention I got the MOST EXCELLENT set of surrogate parents I could ever ask for in the deal. Honestly, I’m blessed.
My own family, source of 110% of my neuroses, has also been an extraordinary gift. My parents have been incredibly generous and loving. I can’t be appreciative enough of all they’ve done for me (and continue to do for me). I love you both. My brother Paul, obviously swimming in the better part of the gene pool, who is brilliant, funny, and looks like a frigging Calvin Klein model…well, I resent him deeply. I’m working on that with my therapist (Dr. Jose Cuervo). In all seriousness, I love you bro and our talks…can’t wait to see you over the holidays.
Last, but assuredly not least, is Joe. I just want to say, damn, I’m lucky. For those of you who have known me long enough to be familiar with my various fantasies about one of my History teachers or English professors – this man is total wish fulfillment for me. I’m not sure who got paid off or how exactly I got lucky enough to love and be loved in return by a handsome, intelligent, talented, funny, caring man (and yes girls, he’s a reader too) who is not only a wonderful boyfriend but an amazing friend. Wow. Ok, the truth is that in this case my dogged persistence paid off…I just wore him down…frankly, I’ve been studying cults and mind control and if we ever break up he’s going to have to be de-programmed. Kidding. Sort of. I love you the most honey.
So, you may ask at this juncture, “Lis, what’s with the Susie Cream Cheese thing?” Well, my mom always warns me not to become Susie Cream Cheese as I become…well, domesticated (there’s some potential cohabitation on the horizon for those who are unaware). I’ve given this a great deal of thought. At certain points in my life I’ve been a pretty fierce feminista – ask Chris Giampapa who at one point called me Ms. ERA – and I’m proud of that. I’m proud that my parents raised me to think critically, feel deserving of the same rights, education, status, etc. as my male counterparts and that’s a big part of who I am. Fundamentally, this is all about the right to make choices – to have options open to women and my biggest criticism of certain strains of feminism has been the horrendous backlash against women who choose a more traditional role, want to stay home with their children, etc. My feeling is that the goal of all this activism is to create options and allow people (regardless of gender, race, national origin, sexual preference, etc.) to be what they want to be – to craft their own identity and not to be denied opportunity. I’m sure I could wax far more intellectually on this if it wasn’t Sunday morning and I wasn’t in my PJs and overtired but you get the gist.
I have realized at 33 that I am an amalgam of my experiences and influences and that my grandmother Yetta who stayed home and raised her kids, cooked meals, knitted, etc. is as much a part of me as her son the lawyer. The simple fact is, I love what I do for a living and I’m getting better at it all the time – that gives me great satisfaction – but I also really love making a nice meal for my boyfriend, decorating my apartment, fantasizing about a KitchenAid Artisan stand mixer. That’s all good. Those are my choices. Now, Joe is never going to be the type of man who demands domestic servitude. He’s completely self-sufficient, does his own laundry, folds his own shirts, and is a damn good cook. This isn’t about anything he requires of me, it’s about me expressing love and care for him the way it was expressed to me my whole life by my grandmother and mother.
At great length, what I’m saying is “Hellooo Susie Cream Cheese!” I’ve always been a little bit Susie and I’m really ok with that. So I’m tying this entry up and going back to knitting a Christmas gift for Joe’s mom that I hope carries with it the gratitude I feel towards her for not only her incredible thoughtfulness and generosity but for producing a really spectacular son. Happy Thanksgiving to all of you and I hope your own reflections yield as much to be thankful for as mine have. If not, give me a holler and I’ll bake you some cookies or knit you some socks.



The Monkey Socks, that were progressing so nicely experienced some stalling, due not only to the repurposing of the Fugly Poncho, but also to the fact that I appeared, once again, to be knitting into the black hole. I’m pleased to report that I have found my way out and am about to close the toe on the first sock. I plan to do so tonight and cast on sock number 2. I love these socks so much that I’ve been able to resist the yarny call of my new stash acquisitions and new patterns. It hasn’t even been that difficult. Although I am in love with them, I am still considering gifting them to Joe’s mom…however, each time I drop a stitch because I’m tired and not paying attention and pick it up somewhat sloppily my inner perfectionist feels that the socks are no longer good enough to give away. We’ll see what happens. I also must note that I was afraid I was short on yardage for these socks and ordered another skein only to discover upon its arrival that 1 skein per sock was just fine and I now have extra…sooo, the question is: shall I return? shall I exchange? What’s a girl to do?

Pictured are jeweled stitch markers from Stix -n- Stitches, the Soak sample package from The Loopy Ewe and Harmony DPNs, nickle plated DPNs and a Chibi from Knit Picks. I am so happy I can barely control myself. I was coveting the Harmony Options set from Knit Picks but it wasn’t in the budget at the moment….that’s headed straight for the Xmas list!
A beauteous new knitting bag made for me by the fabulous Jo Ellen! I actually have to take a better pic because this one doesn’t do it justice. It’s an incredible crazy quilt messenger bag with inside pockets made to hold knitting needles, crochet hooks, pencils and the like… I am so in love with it!!! Jo Ellen is a lifelong quilter and does amazing work. Her full sized quilts boggle my mind completely. She’s happy to take commissioned work and, I believe has some finished quilts she’d be willing to sell. If you’d like to get in touch with her, drop me a line or leave a comment. If my Stix-n-Stitches ladies are reading, she will be accompanying me to SnB tomorrow night and you can see the bag in person.

I am so loving these puppies… I mean, Monkeys and they’re just knitting up incredibly quickly. Cookie A. is a total genius and one of the things that I love, love, love is that she has the lace pattern both written out and charted. I swore many moons ago I would never knit anything that required a chart, which really just amounts to a phobia, and thanks to Miss Cookie I have finally overcome it and have been happily knitting from her chart. The pattern is perfection and I am stoked beyond belief.
The FO is one sock. Yes, one. I first reasoned that I had only made one because the socks are for me which makes me less motivated, but I think I was just not having a good time with it. I love Fleece Artist but I found myself wishing for a bit more elasticity in the yarn… it was a long haul! Just the same, I really dig the sock and HAVE TO make another one so I can wear ‘em! Note how lovely this one looks on the sock blocker… it’s an Ann Budd standard sock.
The UFO is, strangely enough, also a sock. I was cruising Knitty yesterday and got a good look at the Monkey sock pattern… suddenly I knew the destiny of the gorgeous Freesia Claudia Hand Painted I bought from the Loopy Ewe last month. I whipped it out and started winding – unfortunately finding a break in the yarn not too far into the hank – argh! I’ll deal with it when I get there I guess. So, this is the cuff in progress. Working with this yarn I truly understand what Lime & Violet are talking about when they say that the yarn is lickable. This looks like rainbow sherbert or something — I cannot wait to have lickable socks!
Finally, the Alan Parsons Project has been received and here it is… modeled by the lovely Miss Hadley! Yes, it’s a 







